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90 & 90 Questions

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Matrimonial Evaluation

Directions: Write on each question fully in loving detail, until you believe you have exhausted every part of your thoughts and feelings. If you finish answering both questions before the time is up, go back and read your reflection. You may think of more to write. You can also write “I love you, I love you, I love you” until you think of more to write.

1. What are my reasons for wanting to go on living? Describe fully in loving detail. How do I feel about that?

2. What are my reasons for wanting to go on living with you? Describe fully in loving detail. How do I feel about that?

You will have 90 minutes to write this love letter.

Then you will have 90 minutes together in your room for dialogue, loving discussion, and nonverbal communication.

To let you know when you have only 10 remaining minutes of time in your room, the telephone in your room will ring once or twice. Do not answer.

At the end of your 90 minutes in your room, your phone will ring again. Then answer and return quickly to the conference room.